Exploring contemporary masculinity can be a challenge as we move towards a more progressive society. Perhaps the first image that crosses your mind is that of an iconic figure such as Captain America, The Rock or even Keanu Reeves.
Lionel Messi and C. Tangana may also represent different aspects of what is considered masculine in the contemporary world. The truth is that choosing someone to represent masculinity is a personal exercise and reflects your own values and perceptions.
Why did you choose your representative of masculinity?
Possibly, your choice was based on outstanding characteristics such as height, physical strength and courage. Or perhaps more because of the level of self-confidence and economic success that person demonstrates.
These attributes traditionally associated with masculinity often put pressure on men to meet unrealistically high standards.
How many men live up to these clichés of masculinity?
If you reflect, you will find that probably not many men in your close circles meet all of these societally driven stereotypes. Yet, we often find ourselves struggling to fit these preconceived expectations in an attempt to be considered "real" men.
Is meeting these attributes indicative of authentic masculinity?
Reserving masculinity for those who strictly meet these attributes is a limited, infuriating and ultimately damaging view.
It is essential to recognize that masculinity is a spectrum that encompasses a wide variety of traits, including those that have traditionally been classified as "unmasculine."
Where is the perception of masculinity evolving to?
In today's society, it is increasingly common for men to be allowed to express their emotional side and vulnerability, and not be imprisoned to take positions that are strictly defined in terms of strength and aggressiveness.
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